This was really the beginning of the end.  I had broke up with Tanya in the end of 1993 along the time of the confusion poem.  We got back together after I took a very heart wrenching seminar, PSI.  Our love was very strong and then Tanya was pregnant and refused the agreed upon abortion.  I wanted a stronger relationship before having children, how right I was.  This poem was about a month after learning Tanya was pregnant and about the time she started changing.  My reference to fog is that of uncertainty.

My Valentine

Happy Valentines Day

this year of the dog

so much to say

still too much fog

dreaming the future

together, you and me

time's come to nurture

 our own family

I'll not look back

nor second guess

our life will not lack

forever happiness

I'll always pray

we never part

I love you Tonni

with all my heart

  Dan Copper  Valentines 1994